I remember the uncertainty of India’s first lockdown: changing routines, difficulty arranging essentials and long periods apart from family. For parents and children living in different countries, distance could make ordinary tasks feel much harder.

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This reflection began during the Omicron period. It captures how uncertain that time felt, rather than offering present-day medical guidance. For decisions about infection, vaccination or treatment now, I would turn to qualified healthcare professionals and current public-health advice.

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Isolation also brought practical and emotional challenges. Some elders needed help obtaining groceries, using digital services or staying connected. Those experiences reminded me that support needs to be accessible and shaped around the person.

Daily routines were disrupted, and families had to find new ways to offer company and practical help. Even when circumstances change, it is useful to ask what an older relative would welcome now rather than assuming their needs are the same.

The question I return to is a practical one: what support would help our family manage a change in circumstances? A conversation about contacts, essential supplies and local help can be a starting point.

We cannot remove every uncertainty. We can listen, agree responsibilities and make it easier to ask for help. For families who live apart, a trusted local contact or care coordinator may complement the connection they already share.

This too, shall pass — and we remain standing by.